View source for Master ← Master Jump to: navigation, search You do not have permission to edit this page, for the following reason: The action you have requested is limited to users in the group: editors. You can view and copy the source of this page: A Master is a term used to describe a revered [[d-type]] and is often used a variety of ways. Most often this term is used to refer to the [[dominant]] person in a [[Master/slave]] relationship, usually defined as a [[24/7]] [[TPE]] [[relationship]] that is greatly respected within the local [[BDSM]] community. Synonyms may include: [[Owner]], Mistress, Dominatrix, [[Dominant]] or others depending on how the term is being used. The term Master is often used as a masculine, while Mistress is used for the feminine, however this convention is not universal. == Variable Parameters == The term Master may refer to... * a gender-independent [[status role]] that is mostly used only in reference to males. There is not otherwise a male equivalent. The female equivalent is Mistress or possibly Dominatrix to indicate a professional female Master. The term describes someone who believes their role orientation is that of a person who directs others, especially those that identify as [[slaves]]. * an [[honorific]] used strictly for a [[scene]] or fantasy [[role play]] to indicate one that has control over another or others, especially in a professional [[session]]. * The owner of a [[slave]]; the head of a household in some styles of [[D/s]] and [[M/s]], especially those groups of people identifying as a [[House]]. * someone recognized as incredibly skilled and talented; someone who has mastered a specific skill set in regards to [[BDSM]] such as a ''Rope Master''. * one whose teachings or doctrines are accepted by followers; an original manifestation from which copies can be made. * The owner or keeper of a [[pet play]] animal: ''The dog ran toward its master''. Also called a [[handler]]. * One who has control over or ownership of something: the master of a dungeon. * Used as a title for a person who serves as the head or presiding officer of certain societies, clubs, orders, or institutions: The Master of the [[Collaring Ceremony]]. * someone who may or may not have earned his or her title from a community recognition or a regional Leather contest. * someone who has titled themselves as a Master without meeting any exterior qualifications. == Values == In many cases there are claims that a Master must have "X" trait or quality in order to be able to control or direct another person, but due to the varied nature of what constitutes being a Master between each individual, what those things are, how they might apply, and their degree of importance can vary drastically as there is no [[one true way]] to be a Master. In most cases these lists simply mirror what it means to be an exemplary human being with a strong [[Values System]], the desire and motivation to constantly improve, and the ability to perform the function of a Master with expertise: the ability to control and direct another person. Some commonly emphasized values consistent with [[best practices]] concerning a Master may include but are not limited to: (in no particular order) *Honorable behavior in word and deed. *Is in touch with their wants and needs; gives clearly stated expectations, orders and instructions. *A clear understanding of their own personal limitations and failings while consistently seeking to learn more and better themselves. *The ability to respect and forgive the personal limitations and failings of those that serve them while still helping them push towards and achieve self betterment. *Possession of sound judgement, logic, reliability and the ability to keep their personal affairs in reasonable order. *An amazing degree of control of temper and impulse. *Recognizes both service and Mastery as callings worthy of respect. === Master Milestones === Within the context of a live-in [[24/7]] [[TPE]] [[relationship]] it can be hard to assess one's progress as a Master since each [[M/s]] relationship is decidedly different. Consider using the Master Milestones[http://www.msdevelopmentcenter.com/Text_Items/Milestones4Masters_10_01_08_levels.pdf] sheet supplied by the MsDC[http://www.msdevelopmentcenter.com/] to self assess and help provide you with some direction on deciding how best to move forward with your household. [[Category:Slave Training]][[Category:D-Types]] Return to Master.