View source for CIQ ← CIQ Jump to: navigation, search You do not have permission to edit this page, for the following reason: The action you have requested is limited to users in the group: editors. You can view and copy the source of this page: CIQ, or Compliment, Introduction, Question, is a simple three step aid to help engage others in conversation during casual, social encounters. == Process == *'''Compliment''' Approach with confidence and gain eye contact (if appropriate) with the person you wish to engage. Make a compliment that is not too terribly personal to start with. ''Hey there, that's a really nice corset you are wearing, I like the red and black swirling patterns --'' *'''Introduction''' immediately move to your introduction. ''-- My name is Bob, by the way. I'm here at this party as a bottom and came looking for someone to have a scene with tonight.'' *'''Question''' Pause briefly to let them respond with their name if they wish. Finish out your introduction with a question. ''Did you come out looking to have a scene with someone tonight?'' This simple technique can be altered indefinitely to help assertively gain information or even to direct a conversation. [[Category:BDSM Events]][[Category:Communication Disciplines]][[Category:Relationships]][[Category:Acronyms]] Return to CIQ.