View source for Protocol ← Protocol Jump to: navigation, search You do not have permission to edit this page, for the following reason: The action you have requested is limited to users in the group: editors. You can view and copy the source of this page: A protocol is any defined, enforced code of behavior, and or [[ritual| rituals]] whether it be within the confines of a particular group, community, or other interpersonal dynamic (such as a [[power exchange]] [[relationship]]). Protocols are a set of governing rules that dictate the [[three powers| body, behavior and attitudes]] through an enforced code of behavior and/or [[ritual| rituals]] whether it be within the confines of a particular group,community, or interpersonal dynamic. Protocols are often referred to those found within a [[power exchange]] relationship. The reason there is no set rules about universal protocols is because every power exchange [[:Category:Relationships| relationship]] is different, not just based on relationship style, but more specifically on the individuals involved in the relationship. == [[Best Practices]]: How to create your own protocols == To develop some starter protocols as a [[D-type]], consider what things you value and what small niceties might make your life easier and more enjoyable. Then discuss them with your partner and negotiate the terms of these protocols. When creating rituals and protocols, ensure they have the following criteria: '''A ritual or protocol should be...''' *able to be consistently maintained with little or preferably no Dominant maintenance. *practical or it will not see regular use. *assist with facilitating and enriching the s-type headspace and [[D/s]] relationship rather than detracting from them. *avoid boredom and preferably guard against it. *able to fall within [[RACK]] or [[SSC]] guidelines. With that information you will be able to create your own rewarding protocols with your partner, provided you know what it is that you want and like, and if you don't, it's important to get to know yourself if you intend on directing your [[s-type]] in how to please you. == Invisible Protocols == Invisible protocols are protocols that occur in a method that is stealthy and difficult to detect when compared to a typical [[vanilla]] environment. Usually invisible protocols are used to practice [[power exchange]] in areas where stealth is required, or as an enhanced communication technique that allows complex information and concepts to be transferred quickly. These protocols and rituals see frequent use with couples that have children, those practicing D/s in public and not wanting to alert others or force them to see something non-consensual, or when wishing to enjoy a well trained slave. == Rituals == A ritual is a solemn ceremony that exists within a [[power exchange]] dynamic consisting of a series of actions performed (usually by the [[s-type]]) according to a prescribed order set by the [[d-type]]. Unlike a [[protocol]], a ritual has a specific physical action associated with it as well as a triggering mechanism, where as a protocol can simply be a directive to govern behavior. See also [[conditioning]]. === Types of Rituals === Rituals can cover any topic the [[D-type]] so desires, however typical rituals might involve things such as: * Greetings * Opening Doors * Drink Service * A [[Mantra]] * Collaring or Leashing and anything else of importance to a particular D-type. [[Category:BDSM Theory]][[Category:Power Exchange]][[Category:Slave Training]] Return to Protocol.