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== Dungeon Monitors == | == Dungeon Monitors == | ||
| − | A Dungeon Monitor, or DM is a trained safety expert in many common forms of BDSM that is assigned by the venue owner or event host. Generally they are well-respected, well-vetted members of the community who walk the dungeon(s) at events to ensure rules are being followed, nothing patently unsafe is occurring and that consent is being respected. They keep a trained eye on various scenes and observe to help ensure that everyone is safe. | + | A Dungeon Monitor, or DM, is a trained safety expert in many common forms of BDSM that is assigned by the venue owner or event host. Generally they are well-respected, well-vetted members of the community who walk the dungeon(s) at events to ensure rules are being followed, nothing patently unsafe is occurring and that consent is being respected. They keep a trained eye on various scenes and observe to help ensure that everyone is safe. |
=== Ten Tips for Dungeon Monitors === | === Ten Tips for Dungeon Monitors === | ||
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The following suggestions were made by Jay Wiseman of [http://www.greenerypress.com/ greenery press] [http://www.jaywiseman.com/SEX_BDSM_DM_10_Tips.php [1]] | The following suggestions were made by Jay Wiseman of [http://www.greenerypress.com/ greenery press] [http://www.jaywiseman.com/SEX_BDSM_DM_10_Tips.php [1]] | ||
| − | * Know the party rules and the house rules cold. | + | *Know the party rules and the house rules cold. |
| − | * Don't play or overly socialize while on duty. | + | *Don't play or overly socialize while on duty. |
| − | * Circulate. If an area hasn't been inspected in the last fifteen minutes, go look at it. | + | *Circulate. If an area hasn't been inspected in the last fifteen minutes, go look at it. |
| − | * Don't act with bias (positive or negative) to anybody. | + | *Don't act with bias (positive or negative) to anybody. |
| − | * Intervene sooner rather than later. | + | *Intervene sooner rather than later. |
| − | * Intervene gently and diplomatically. | + | *Intervene gently and diplomatically. |
| − | * Be ready for emergencies. | + | *Be ready for emergencies. |
| − | * Have proper training and equipment. | + | *Have proper training and equipment. |
| − | * Help provide minor assistance with matters such as food, trash, and music. | + | *Help provide minor assistance with matters such as food, trash, and music. |
| − | * Debrief after the party. | + | *Debrief after the party. |
== Play Parties == | == Play Parties == | ||
Revision as of 20:24, 27 March 2014
A dungeon is a room or area that is used for a public or private play space to conduct BDSM activities.
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Dungeon Monitors
A Dungeon Monitor, or DM, is a trained safety expert in many common forms of BDSM that is assigned by the venue owner or event host. Generally they are well-respected, well-vetted members of the community who walk the dungeon(s) at events to ensure rules are being followed, nothing patently unsafe is occurring and that consent is being respected. They keep a trained eye on various scenes and observe to help ensure that everyone is safe.
Ten Tips for Dungeon Monitors
The following suggestions were made by Jay Wiseman of greenery press [1]
- Know the party rules and the house rules cold.
- Don't play or overly socialize while on duty.
- Circulate. If an area hasn't been inspected in the last fifteen minutes, go look at it.
- Don't act with bias (positive or negative) to anybody.
- Intervene sooner rather than later.
- Intervene gently and diplomatically.
- Be ready for emergencies.
- Have proper training and equipment.
- Help provide minor assistance with matters such as food, trash, and music.
- Debrief after the party.