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CIQ, or Compliment, Introduction, Question, is a simple three step aid to help engage others in conversation during casual, social encounters. | CIQ, or Compliment, Introduction, Question, is a simple three step aid to help engage others in conversation during casual, social encounters. | ||
| − | *'''Compliment''' Approach with confidence and gain eye contact (if appropriate) with the person you wish to engage. | + | == Process == |
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| + | *'''Compliment''' Approach with confidence and gain eye contact (if appropriate) with the person you wish to engage. Make a compliment that is not too terribly personal to start with. | ||
''Hey there, that's a really nice corset you are wearing, I like the red and black swirling patterns --'' | ''Hey there, that's a really nice corset you are wearing, I like the red and black swirling patterns --'' | ||
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*'''Introduction''' immediately move to your introduction. | *'''Introduction''' immediately move to your introduction. | ||
| − | ''-- My name is Bob, by the way. | + | ''-- My name is Bob, by the way. I'm here at this party as a bottom and came looking for someone to have a scene with tonight.'' |
| − | *'''Question''' Pause briefly to let them respond with their name if they wish. | + | *'''Question''' Pause briefly to let them respond with their name if they wish. Finish out your introduction with a question. |
''Did you come out looking to have a scene with someone tonight?'' | ''Did you come out looking to have a scene with someone tonight?'' | ||
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| − | [[Category:BDSM Events]][[Category:Communication Disciplines]][[Category:Relationships]] | + | This simple technique can be altered indefinitely to help assertively gain information or even to direct a conversation. |
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| + | [[Category:BDSM Events]][[Category:Communication Disciplines]][[Category:Relationships]][[Category:Acronyms]] | ||
Latest revision as of 08:44, 2 April 2014
CIQ, or Compliment, Introduction, Question, is a simple three step aid to help engage others in conversation during casual, social encounters.
Process
- Compliment Approach with confidence and gain eye contact (if appropriate) with the person you wish to engage. Make a compliment that is not too terribly personal to start with.
Hey there, that's a really nice corset you are wearing, I like the red and black swirling patterns --
- Introduction immediately move to your introduction.
-- My name is Bob, by the way. I'm here at this party as a bottom and came looking for someone to have a scene with tonight.
- Question Pause briefly to let them respond with their name if they wish. Finish out your introduction with a question.
Did you come out looking to have a scene with someone tonight?
This simple technique can be altered indefinitely to help assertively gain information or even to direct a conversation.