View source for D/s ← D/s Jump to: navigation, search You do not have permission to edit this page, for the following reason: The action you have requested is limited to users in the group: editors. You can view and copy the source of this page: D/s, or [[Dominance]] and [[Submission]], is a set of behaviors, customs, and rituals involving [[power exchange| the giving by one individual to another individual of control over them]] in a [[BDSM]] [[scene| erotic episode]] or [[24/7| lifestyle relationship]]. == Domination == Domination is the exercise, act, or practice of preponderant governing or controlling influence, and is frequently associated with [[Power exchange]] [[Relationships]] involving [[Dominance and submission]]. ''Dominance'' indicates a possession of qualities, skills or display of actions that create a state of domination. A person that gives domination as part of power exchange is commonly referred to as a [[D-type]]. Domination generally requires three steps: * Understand the [[s-type]] * Accept the [[s-type]] * Add value to the [[s-type]] Precise methods of “correct implementation” of the formula will depend entirely upon the specific needs of the potential s-type. == Submission == Submission is an act or condition of conditional deference or yielding to a recognized [[D-type]] out of respect or reverence. Submission is not to be confused with [[Slaving]] though both are frequently associated with [[Power exchange]] [[Relationships]] involving D/s. A person that gives submission is generally referred to as an [[S-type]]. == Parameters == Physical contact is not a necessity for D/s to exist, and it can even be conducted anonymously over the telephone, email, or other messaging systems in a practice called [[cyber domination]]. In other cases, it can be intensely physical, sometimes traversing into [[SM]], [[chocolate and peanut butter analogy| though not necessarily]]. In D/s, both parties take pleasure or erotic enjoyment from either dominating or being dominated. Those who take the superior position are called [[D-types]] or [[Dominants]], while those who take the subordinate position are called [[s-types]] or [[submissives]]. A [[switch]] is an individual who plays in either role of [[power exchange]]. Two switches together may negotiate and exchange roles several times in a session. == Variances == Dominance and submission, and the inner conflict and surrender connected with these are enduring themes in human culture and civilization. In human sexuality this has broadened to include mutual exploration of roles, emotions and activities which would be difficult or impossible to do without a willing partner taking an opposing role. These roles are not exclusive to sex, gender, status, sexual orientation or other [[discrimination| discriminatory]] characteristics. While participants are not discriminated when choosing a role for themselves, having a firm and informed understanding of [[consent]], [[negotiations]], and [[disciplines]] that are to be used during [[play]] is strongly recommended. Specifics of D/s [[relationship styles]] and [[protocols]], and even [[Protocol#Linguistic_Conventions| linguistic conventions]] will vary widely between practitioners. [[Category:Theory]][[Category:Power Exchange]][[Category:Relationships]][[Category:Acronyms]] Return to D/s.